Sunday, February 10, 2008

"what does actually women want?"



Dear beloved friend,
Last week, we have received a good picture and words from Kritanai for our contemplation. They were truly beneficial. I appreciated it very much.

But, today, (if you don't mind) I would like to share you an interesting topics: "WHAT DOES ACTUALLY WOMEN WANT?" ( from her partner, from her boyfriend, or from her husband).

The biggest phcycolog in the world (Mr. Segmund Freud) frustrated because he could not answer the above question until he passed away. Then, Mr. David Buss PhD - from The University of Texas -- recently conducted a survey (asking question) to more than 10,000 women from 37 different background (countries).

Besides having a MATURITY (a man who can act as a leader in the family, not childhood or mamamia who always ask his mother before moving/acting), CARING & UNDERSTANDING (women wants to be understood/respected and need attention), women also wants a man who has the followings:

0. MATURITY, CARE & UNDERSTANDING
1. WEALTH (MONEY / JOB SECURITY)
2. SOCIAL STATUS (POWER / STRONG CHARACTER)
3. A MAN WHO OLDER THAN HER (AVERAGE 3.5 YEARS OLDER)
4. INTELLIGENCE (NOT MERELY EDUCATION)
5. LOVE AND COMMITMENT


The conclusion from the survey is --> a women WANTS & will feel "SAVE" if she has a partner/boyfriend/husband who is meeting the above answers. Most of women put "love and commitment" on the last choice. Women doesn't want to have a man/partner/boyfriend/husband who has a"WEAK Character" (can not make a decision, can not guide a family). Most of women also want to have a partner who older than her, and with good intelligence (e.g. not stupid). The intelligence is not merely coming from education (get bachelor, masters or doctoral), but the way a man anticipate/react/solve the problems and expressed his opinion in a such way situation/condition.

If you're asked about your opinion, how is your answer/opinion? What is your wish? (if you are given an opportunity to chose?)

Please note: there is no a really perfect "MAN" in the world.

That's the topic of this month.
Thank you
Best Regards,
Bunchai SengSuria

PS: I don't know, how many % Asian women included in the survey?.

Hey,I like it.It's true:-)

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